reply to guS.AOL Zella/new

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Feb 3, 2010 at 15:22

This is very good advice - although. everyone is entitled to give a point of view - and Zellas point of view is just that -My thoughts are that generalising is something we all tend to do., and sometimes its not always the case. There may be doubts for other reasons, .-this lady has just got concerns we can just advise. and give an opinion We all know what these guys are capable of. The USA have different regulations to visa applications than the UK so certain information is different country to country, as it is for each religion, culture and gender.
The red flags pop up everywhere , but then are we always looking for them? I know we should be alerted by certain" patterns" but then again , these patterns are sometimes part of the culture in which these guys are part of.

Its difficult sometimes to read all that is negative and feel at ease within a relationship outside of what you are familiar with - its a hard difficult long lesson to learn and come to terms with by many.
There are certain individuals that are solely committed to finding a western wife -but would say the expectations of these relationships to exceed 5 yrs is probably very slim ,and i am stating" certain individuals" This is the average time scale involved to groom , manipulate, and gain the most of the person in question. (man or women) The red flags in these relationships may not even surface until too late. so a lot to worry about and concerns for many a man and women -should relationships be like this??-

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