understanding?

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Jan 27, 2010 at 23:09

Hi Refreshing

i can understand what u mean, though my man was the opposite, i would get frustrated because he never ever got angry no matter what i said or did? i have said some harsh things to him when he was making excuses and being dodgy but he always remained calm and sweet until eventually i confronted him with evidence of his behaviour, he tried to deny it, but then he gave me a string of real nasty words . Its true what you say, they have a way of keeping you there, its like we are hypnotised and cant break away? even though we know we should and many of us have experienced this feeling. They do have the same characteristics, its weird how they persue us no matter what their goal is? They make so much effort but all seem to say and do alike. Really though if your man is angry and jealous now what will he be like if you end up with him? Try to break free, i did and i have peace now, not worry and mistrust, believe me its hard and it takes months to get back to life, because they have been with you every day , you are bound to miss it, but you will eventually feel better and realise that its not worth all the hassle. Its a big big risk wondering if he really does love you or is it an act? usually you find out after they have milked you of emotions and money leaving you destroyed. Mine was on dating sites too, also sending e. mails to women he met, telling them how much he missed and loved them, then declaring love to me the next day!! But..................... a few are good its just the luck of the draw!! if it doesn't feel right LEAVE!

i wish u peace

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