What's in it for you Refreshing?

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Jan 27, 2010 at 18:08

You said - "I often wonder why he continues to keep in contact with me and continues to be so jealous when he acts (through his anger) like he can't stand me half of the time".

I wonder why you continue to correspond with him and put up with this treatment and in a sense, emotional torture. You need to ask yourself - "What's in it for ME?" It's easy to blame someone else for your pain but why is it so hard to walk away. This man is doing you no favours and believe me, corresponding with someone on the internet is NOT a relationship.

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