to broken hearted in michigan

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Jan 26, 2010 at 15:57

Hi - I am sure you have had a very hard time trying to come to terms with all that he has thrown at you - your life has been turned upside down and you are just dangling wondering what the heck am i doing???
The behaviour of this guy is typical - if you read many of the posters blogs these guys pick on your vulnerabilities, and like to control - Control being most crucial of all to have on you - but it doesnt come when you first meet , slowly over time and it can be considerable time with certain relationships you are simply not the person you once was. I have spoken with many ladies whome have spent from 1 yr -12 yrs in relationships where they have felt trapped with no escape. Some because they simply could not break free.
I would simply just look at him and think what have i got from this relationship ???
then you will know your answer Good luck and please keep posting -your comments could help others

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