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Submitted by JASMINE (France), Jan 25, 2010 at 11:04

I can sympathise with you about the crying, the tantrums, and the breaking and throwing objects....

Mine was the same, you could cry t'ill the cows came home and that wouldn't change a thing or he would say stop crying and just ignore me and belittle me!!! or bring it up a few weeks later saying why did you cry like that, its a bit late for asking now! The tantrums were awful but it depended on what he wanted and he would go on and on until he got his own way. You would feel so drained that you accepted but went against yourself which made me feel bad.. so little by little he was undermining me. If i made a comment about a film he wanted to watch like "is this a guys film" or something like that i can't remember what i said exactly?He got up with rage and smashed the mini tv in to bits!!! I was shocked ! i said just for saying that! He said" i know what you were getting at" or something!!!Or once i saw him looking at my mobile i said give it back, he would'nt so i tried to grab it and he broke it in half! saying i was hiding something from him! So i understand what you mean and they are selfish when it comes to our feelings maybe one day when they do grow up they will realise the shit they put us through!!!And that we are decent women who love sincerely and who don't cheat and sneak around...

I really hope you will be ok and that you will find a solution to this nightmare....things can only get better!!!

all the best!

BYE FOR NOW!!!xoxo

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