More Advice for Lisa USA

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Nov 1, 2009 at 02:42

Lisa:

Please do not write in all bold. It actually makes your post harder to read.

1) I have investigated on-line scammers before and yes, I am quite familiar with their patterns of behaviour, and yes, they are all similar regardless of gender or country of origin because certain persuasive methods tend to work the best. I also see it all the time in arbitration cases.

2) The reason I don't believe you and Simo have real matrimonial love is because you don't know him all that well, and you seem unable to reconcile that with your feminine instincts. I suspect, Lisa, that is one of many reasons why you are so defensive.

3) You are "standing up" to me on here evidently because what I post is so different and so pin-point and sharp that it makes you boil inside with rage. I think you'd rather have me act anti-Muslim and personally attack you just because it would go towards discrediting me and allow you to feel better about yourself.

Lisa, I can sense your anger and if you had such a great thing with Simo, you would be writing me all these long essays. Really, Lisa, I wonder.....do you talk to me more than you talk to him?

It's so obvious Lisa that no matter how hard you try, you cannot overcome the demons that have accompanied you with this relationship. It's so incredibly obvious to me that you don't trust him and love him? Not in the way you are trying to force us on here to believe, Lisa. If you did, this entire blog would bounce off you and it would not matter.

You will not ever admit it, I'm sure, but you keep coming back and responding to me because in your heart, you have doubt. Doubts about the marriage, doubt about Simo and an inkling that this may not be real.

And it's okay, Lisa. It's okay to admit that. No one's going to say "I told you so".

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