Generalizing about posters on this forum

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Oct 29, 2009 at 02:21

First of all, if your marriage is so wonderful, what prompted you to search for this stuff on-line?

Second of all, I don't appreciate people coming on here and generalizing about posters. My statements are backed in full by experience, facts, investigations and relationship insight.

Fiance' and ones on this board do not. Only you know if things do not add up in your relationship and if you two fully trust one another and have respect for one another and only you two know his character, not ones here on this board.

That is absolutely incorrect. There are very clear behavior patterns and red flags that signify whether or not the relationship is real.

Secondly, if she were so sure about him and his character, she would not need her friend to go along with her and she would not need third party advice from us.

Third, the reason that is bringing her here and why she is bringing her friend is because she does not trust this man. Can you blame her, since she's never met him before?

I suggest you pay much closer attention to what I have been saying before making such sweeping generalizations.

I wonder....how many of the 8500+ comments on here have you read?

Also---marriage is the finish line in these relationships. I invite you to consider this in your own relationship.

-Luigi

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