I need advice

Submitted by Mary (Canada), Oct 27, 2009 at 12:23

I need advice because I am in a new relationship with this muslim guy from Afghanistan, everything is going well we even plan to get married soon ( for that I would have to convert to his religion 1st he said, since I'm christian). The problem is that he wants me to go in his country to get married, he said I could live there with him and his familly which I'm too scared of. He agree with me,on the point that the living situation there in his country is not the greatest right now. So, he asked me if it would be possible for him to come here in my country ( canada) on a temporary visa or something instead. He even talked about an invitation thing to canada which I'm not totally sur what it is. Now, would it be possible for him to come here to get married or I really need to sponsor him, which means I have to go there in his country first ?

I have read all the stories and I do not think he is using me to come to canada because he said that if it's not possible for him to come here, if worst comes to worst we can move into another place like either India or Dubai or something like that. It's been only a month we talk together but we really really have fall in love with each other and want to be together soon.

What should I do? Any advice?

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