To Sherry

Submitted by Willow NC (United States), Aug 16, 2009 at 22:08

sherry, I totally know what you are talking about. I could never catch him the guy I was seeing. He had been here in the US for 7 years without a visit home either but i suspect there was a possible wife because he always referred to "his sister". Is he legal in this country? The guy I saw came on really strong then would have these disappearing acts which i suspected there was someone else but could never prove it but i knew it made me feel incrediably insecure and driving me nuts and i know deep down if a man loves you he wants to see you and talk to you not in 2 and 3 week intervals. My battery is dead, I forgot my phone or just didnt respond until the next morning. Its like they reel us in and then let the games begin. It has been really hard to cut it off but I found myself obsessing about thying to find the truth out but tell myself its not doing anythign but driving me crazy. Now your man with nude photos I think that is proof right there. You also do not want a man who shows his private parts to people on the internet to be in the same house as your child.

I also let him get by with a lot of crap because I chalked it up to culture. What an excuse! Christian or Jewish or muslim - these are all signs of a cheating man! You deserve better! I still read this board to hault the addiction to contact him.

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