Submitted by Alice (United Kingdom), Apr 18, 2009 at 06:25
I am European and grew up in a European country. Once I got to the age of thirteen it was the norm for older men in their twenties to hang around the school gates looking for girl friends. This society teaches girls that to be loved they need to uncover and expose their bodies as objects of gratification for men. I did my best to be desirable and attractive in order to be loved and respected, only to be treated like a piece of trash and being on the receiving end of the attention of lewd perverted men who just wanted one thing.
Islam taught me that I have the right to say "No"; that I don't have to be readily available to all and sundry when it is expected of me, and that NO, you can't see my body or my hair for your own gratification. Women who promote uncovering and nakedness are naive in the extreme. Wake up to the real world.
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| ⇒ Reasons for hijab [164 words] | Alice | Apr 18, 2009 06:25 | | question [19 words] | abdul | Oct 10, 2008 09:33 | | Let's Burn The Burqa [1561 words] | Gope Lalwani | Jan 16, 2007 19:31 | | ↔ It's only about respect. [281 words] | Michaeel | Feb 16, 2009 07:13 | | Look at what is happening [126 words] | Ramin B. | Apr 28, 2004 20:27 | | ↔ Dear sister [263 words] | Michaeel | Feb 16, 2009 07:23 | | The Veil Unveiled [162 words] | Alexandra J. | Jan 5, 2004 12:44 | | In response to Zahra b. [169 words] | S. | Oct 27, 2003 17:59 | | Saudi Rules [538 words] | Irfan Khawaja | Oct 10, 2003 23:52 | | ↔ Untrue [133 words] | Michaeel | Feb 16, 2009 07:02 | | Defending the hijab [113 words] | Zahra B. | Oct 8, 2003 09:27 | | ↔ I agree, sister [322 words] | michaeel | Feb 16, 2009 07:42 | | Sultanna Freeman [31 words] | S. | May 30, 2003 17:18 | | ↔ Woman need rights from unwanted male harassment. [124 words] | Michaeel | Feb 16, 2009 07:29 |
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